I work a regular job from 8:00 to 16:00. AchievR runs despite that.
Nobody forced me to do the second one (if anything, the opposite), and nobody will force you to do yours.
Building after work happens in hours where nobody holds you accountable but you.
I hate when work-life balance advice is written by people who quit their jobs years ago. They remember the 9-5 like you remember high school: selectively. So here’s how it looks from someone still inside it.
Work after work kills work-life balance
If you want to build something that gets you out of the 9-5 before official retirement, and you can’t afford to quit it now, work-life balance doesn’t exist.
Sorry.
Assuming you don’t want to spend most of your life on someone else’s rules, you have 3 choices:
Employee -> solopreneur. The default path for us here. Build a project you enjoy after work, one that will eventually buy you freedom. Something you own, something you control, something that comes from the actual you. A lifestyle business, as Ali Abdaal put it nicely.
A career that pays well enough to pursue FIRE in 20-30 years. You still build after work, but without thinking about the money it makes.
A job you enjoy and can comfortably do until retirement, or even until the end of your days. That usually doesn’t pair with a good salary, though.
Which one are you on right now?
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Focus on what you want to do before what brings money.
If you hate it, you won’t be able to carry on after a whole workday.
AchievR is not the most profitable thing I can do after work.
I literally have an alternative in my bookmarks that pays by the hour, and pays well.
But I like doing it.
I’ve had a few people reach me on Twitter with the same message:
“Hey bro, you can automate your writing 100%!”
Ok, but I don’t want to. I want to write.
I write a very rough draft to jot down my ideas before I forget them, then I give it to Claude so it can turn it into something readable. That’s how it should be used. You sketch the whole thing, AI only adds colors.
Focus on something you can build. The problem with most day jobs is that you build nothing for yourself, sometimes not even skills.
Years pass, and if you haven’t been smart with money, you can wake up with nothing to show for the thing you’ve devoted most of your waking hours to.
If something progresses, it progresses for your boss and your boss’s boss.
You often hear people complaining about how bad today’s economy is. What you don’t hear is how the whole paradigm changed the moment we got the internet.
Being born poor in the wrong part of the world 50 years ago was a much worse sentence than the same circumstances today. Today the entry ticket is a laptop and wifi.
My first money online came from CS:GO skins when I was a teenager. It was pennies, and I gambled it away, but it was possible. I’ve seen people making businesses of that and of many other things I wouldn’t even think of.
I wrote about that and 4 other ways I’ve made money online here:
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Honestly, that might be the best case, for one major reason. It’s nice to go home and just close the money box in your head knowing everything takes care of itself in those 8 hours and now you’re free to do whatever you want not caring if it makes a single penny.
You can hang out without checking whether your own thing is succeeding.
I have one problem with this approach, though: I hate working for someone else.
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If you already have that job, close this tab and go enjoy your evening.
Do seasons
Instead of thinking about work-life balance day by day, think about it like seasons of the year.
A season of intense work, then a season of chilling.
During the intense season, evenings belong to the project. The block happens whether you feel like it or not. Full grind. You’ll like it after enough repetitions. Once it becomes part of your identity, it’s hard to find that feeling of fulfillment anywhere else.
It will still be hard, though. To not go crazy: the chill season.
Do anything you want without guilt. Catch up on the shows, play video games, see people more often, drink, eat.
Ironically, you may notice this season gets boring much faster than the grind one. You couldn’t wait for it, and now you have a new idea you want to test. The grass is always greener.
Why not do a little of both every day?
Because you sit on the bed thinking about the project, then at your desk thinking about the bed.
It’s like changing your windshield washer fluid from summer to winter in the morning, then back to summer in the evening. It’s easier to switch seasons by weeks than by hours.
I usually encourage you to put everything in the calendar. Here I say: switch when you feel like it.
The hard part
The chill season runs itself. Nobody needs a system to play video games.
The grind season is where it breaks. You come home after 8 hours, sit down at the desk, and one sentence shows up:
“I’m too tired today.”
“Who am I to do this?”
“What if I waste a year on this?”
Sound familiar? One of those probably ended your last project.
That’s what The Builder Identity Install is for. 14 days, 18 minutes a night, $27.
You find the sentence that ended your last project, write your answer to it while you’re rested, and log the nights you did the work anyway. The goal is to become a person who builds after work, tired or not.
If you do the 14 days and nothing moved, I’ll refund you.
Founding Builders, it’s already in your tier.
P.S. I’m looking for someone with deep knowledge about agentic AI. If that’s you, hit me up here on Substack or just reply to this email!
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